"El mundo no ha cambiado en absoluto, no ha dejado de girar, no se ha detenido.
Entonces, ¿por qué me siento como si me estuviera precipitando rápidamente por un agujero que conduce al centro de la tierra?”
Please make me anonymous- my daughter has not come out yet.
My daughter told me she was asexual. And then she had to explain what that meant because I was ignorant of any other types of sexually beyond hetero and homo. She has opened my eyes to a whole new world and made me realize how hyper focused our society is on romance.
Sometimes she’ll comment on how cute a girl is or mention how guys in wet t-shirts look great. I never challenge her with, “but I thought you were asexual”. Why would I? I’m hetero and I notice cute girls. And I understand now that she can be attracted to people, find them beautiful but not be interested in sex. I guess to me we’re all humans trying to figure out who we are and if labels fit or not? And it’s easier if you are mainstream but not so much when most of society hasn’t even heard of your label.
I love her. She’s my daughter and she’s perfect the way she is. It makes sense to me to want to find what label describes you best. It’s also true that those labels can shift and change over time. What we need is for acceptance to go along with all of those labels and to give people the room to change those labels as they see fit.
"The tragedy of PTSD is that you weren’t born with it. You have PTSD because something terrible was done to you. And that is why it is an atrocity."-one of my counselors years ago (via gaywitchesforabortions)
1. Mind your own business.
2. Learn to be quiet sometimes.
3. If you’re going to be a shithead, just stay home.
4. If someone is being a shithead to you, kick their ass.
5. Don’t fucking rape.
6. Don’t fucking steal.
7. If you’re magic, fucking embrace that shit.
8. Don’t complain about the mess you got yourself into.
9. Don’t hurt little kids.
10. Don’t hurt animals for no reason.
11. Don’t put up with anybody’s bullshit. Ever.
Why aren’t we all Satanists already?
"How I’d love to get away from here and be someone else for a while in a place where no-one knows or expects certain things from me."-Libba Bray (via chitogekirisaki)
DO YOU EVER FANTASIZE ABOUT HUGGING SOMEONE FAMOUS
NO SEX THOUGHTS, NO AUTOGRAPHS OR PHOTOS
JUST A BIG, GENUINE HUG THAT LASTS THE PERFECT AMOUNT OF TIME AND COMPLETES YOUR LIFE
Still so accurate. We all just learn to smile… ☝️Iove all my spoonies and hang in there today! As always ✌️♥️😄 #fibromyalgia #fibrolife #spoonies #chronicillnesses #chronicpain #migraines #warriors #weareawesome #wesmile #throughthepain
Long term illness bingo for #MEawareness day
All day, every day.
Even from friends.